DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend thinks I’m confused about my sexuality because I let a mate pull my pants down and look while he pleasured himself.
I’m 29 and my girlfriend is 27. We have been together for four years and have a two-year-old daughter.
My friend told me he was having gay thoughts and was not sure what to do. He has a girlfriend and doesn’t want to leave her but asked if I’d swap intimate photos with him. I refused at first but then gave in for some reason.
I told my girlfriend he’d asked but not that I’d sent some. He then invited me to his place.
He ended up with no clothes on and asked if he could pleasure himself in front of me. I said no at first but eventually agreed.
I told my girlfriend and she now thinks I’m confused.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your friend may be questioning his own sexuality and may not be happy with the way he feels, but don’t get drawn in further if you want to keep your family.
His attentions may be flattering but do you see the relationship going anywhere, or measuring up to what you share with your
girlfriend? My e-leaflet on Bisexual Issues will help.
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