Want to find yourself a Ken to rival Ryan Gosling? The man himself has shared his go-to tip for finding a match that’s hot and respectful.
At the London premiere for Greta Gerwig’s highly anticipated Barbie move, interviewer Amelia Dimoldenberg ask Ryan how a gal like her might find a Ken like him IRL.
‘You want to find a Ken?’ the actor asked. ‘Drop something, and if a Ken picks it up and he gives it to you and he says “here, you dropped this” and then quickly goes away and doesn’t invade your space and is very respectful…’
Cue Amelia dropping her paper cards. Nicely played.
Found my Ken x @Warner Bros. UK #BarbieTheMovie #RyanGosling
Ryan obliged by picking them up in an oh-so gentlemanly fashion, before Amelia (and the rest of the world) swooned.
‘Not me getting butterflies from this interaction,’ one person commented.
Another added: ‘Help me, my heart is too weak.’
If this little stunt doesn’t work for you, you might want to try manifest-dating (aka manifesting your dating goals) instead.
Manifestation coach Francesca Amber previously teamed up with dating up Badoo to share how to get in the right headspace for dating. Even if you’re not spiritual, it can help to hone in on what you want from your love life.
To get you started, Francesca gave us these tips:
How to manifest love in your life:
Love yourself
Create a life you love full of friends, family, hobbies, travel – whatever it is you want. Never wait for or rely on a partner to enjoy the things that you love in life. Live that life already and only look to a partner to complement, enhance and share it with you.
Set the intention
Go on dates with an open mind and positive attitude and make your goal to just have fun. Be open to new experiences and let people show you who they are.
Create a vision board
Make a relationship vision board which includes a list of core values and attributes you want in a partner. If you start dating and get love blind you can look back clearly on what were your deal breakers.
Make space
Intentionally clear a little mental space each week to let in the new, then literally declutter your life and environment.
Make space in your home and your wardrobe by getting rid of everything that no longer serves you. The trick is to keep your space intentionally clear so that you only fill that space with the dating experiences that you want to attract.
Remember, a partner doesn’t define you
The more you can bring to the table by being happy in your own life, confident in your own qualities and able to grow and evolve with somebody, the more success you will have with dating.
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