DEAR DEIDRE: MY in-laws accuse my husband and me of being “helicopter parents” because we are very careful about where our children are.

My husband’s grandfather and his uncle are convicted paedophiles.

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They have both done time for having illegal images of children on their computers and the uncle was accused of molesting a young babysitter.

I’m a woman of 35 and my husband is 38. His family is awful and he admits it.

His parents want the kids for the holidays but my husband’s grandfather and uncle live next door to them and they are always in one another’s houses.

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My mother-in-law is too single-minded to understand our reasoning.

We’re moving house and I don’t want to give them our new address.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your children’s safety must be paramount so if you don’t want them near these convicted relatives, that is your call.

It is important for children to have a relationship with grandparents but only if it is safe to do so.

Stick to your guns and trust your instincts.


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