DEAR DEIDRE: MY lover cuts short our sexting sessions, saying he’s tired – but I reckon he’s snubbing me to look at porn.

We don’t live together and can’t see one another right now because of the distance between us.

We met online and are trying to make it work.

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We started having phone sex but his language soon changed into the sort of stuff they use in porn films.

He seems less interested in me as a girlfriend and if we try to be intimate he ends it, leaving me frustrated.

We’re both 25. I’m fed-up.

DEIDRE SAYS: If he is a regular porn user, it might be the only way he can get sexual relief.

Pornography addicts can struggle to get how fulfilling a real, loving, caring relationship can be.

Tell him you want this relationship to work but you dislike the porn-style talk and would rather he focuses on you.

The next time you are intimate online, boost his confidence by telling him all the things you want to do to him as soon as your circumstances allow.

Plan a lunch date or a meeting soon so you can decide if this relationship has legs.

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