My boyfriend has got a thing about feet. He loves to lick, suck, and worship my tootsies.

No session in the bedroom is complete without him spending at least 30 minutes on each of my trotters.

If I’m ever cross with him, I only have to tap the side of my right foot with my index finger, and he melts.

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He buys me toe rings and anklets and takes pleasure in washing and massaging my tired dogs after a long day at work. I’m not ticklish and can take it or leave it.

Is it wrong of me to twist him around my little toe when I know that I have this power over him?

JANE SAYS: What you get up to in private is your business.

If you know that your man derives pleasure from touching your feet – and you don’t mind – then you don’t have to justify that to anyone.

Clearly, he likes the power you have over him; it turns him on.

A foot fetish is a sexual interest in feet. It’s very common and nothing to be ashamed of.

Do you love him enough to indulge him or are you tiring of this game?

Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with.


I’ve noticed that my new girlfriend doesn’t shower.

Any time she stays over, she freshens up with a wet flannel and glug of mouthwash, but I’ve never seen her wash her hair or clean her teeth.

She’s a great person and interesting to be with, but no amount of musky perfume can mask the fact that she looks grubby.

She wears fashionable clothes and I enjoy her company.

But I wish she’d take more care of her personal hygiene. How do I approach this?

JANE SAYS: Some people don’t think it’s necessary to keep showering and washing our hair.

It could be that she doesn’t like to waste water and use products because she’s worried about the environment.

She could even have a skin condition that she has yet to discuss with you.

Be polite and respectful. Point out that you’ve noticed her bathroom habits differ from yours and you’re curious.

I do worry about her not cleaning her teeth though. Poor oral hygiene leads to bacteria in the blood and could even affect her heart.


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