DEAR DEIDRE: I’M a man of 25 who’s always been attracted to older women.

But none of them take me seriously when I approach them.

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The only women who show any interest are in their twenties and I don’t want them.

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I am really looking for someone more mature who knows what they want, not some silly girl who is going to mess me around.

How can I make older women understand that I am serious about them?

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DEIDRE SAYS: There is no reason why an age-gap relationship can’t work, as long as the couple have the same long-term plans.

It is great that you have such a clear idea of the type of woman you are looking for.

But I would always advise anyone against being too prescriptive, simply because you narrow down your options.

I am wondering if you are against the idea of being with a younger woman because of some bad experience you might have had in the past.


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If you want to meet someone, join clubs where you are likely to meet like-minded people.

And try to keep an open mind. Older or younger, I am sure the right person is out there for you.

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