DEAR DEIDRE: MY dreams of having a family with my husband might have been snatched away, and I’m so upset.

I’ve just been diagnosed with a cyst on my left ovary and it might be cancerous.


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Either way, I have to have an operation to remove it.

I’m 38 and my husband is 40.

We’ve been talking about having kids ever since we got married two years ago, but now we’ve been warned it might not happen naturally.

Until I get the results of the biopsy, I won’t be able to make any decisions.

I feel sick with worry and I can’t sleep.

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I’m more worried about my fertility than possibly having cancer.

I’d like to start looking into fertility treatment but I don’t know where to start.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Try not to jump ahead of yourself. Your cyst may not be malignant and you might not need fertility treatment.

Please talk to your husband about your fears so he can support you.

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If you do need to consider fertility treatment contact Fertility Network UK (fertilitynetworkuk.org, 0800 008 7464).

For advice and support about gynaecological cancer, contact The Eve Appeal (eveappeal.org.uk, 0808 802 0019).

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