DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T stop myself flirting with a guy I work with.

I am finding myself really attracted to him.

He flirts back but I don’t think he likes me in that way.

I am 37 and have been with my partner for 14 years.

He is 38 and we have two lovely children together.

But I am no longer happy with him and all I can think about is my sexy colleague.

I have never been attracted to him before.

Since he started working right next to me, I’ve started to feel myself being drawn to him.

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I do want to be with my partner because I love him but I feel myself pulling away from him when he touches me.

I don’t know what to do.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Flirting with your colleague may seem like a safe way to get your sexual kicks but it’s still damaging your relationship and you can easily get sucked into things going further.

Instead, pep up your relationship. Look at why you are feeling tempted.

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