DEAR DEIDRE:  THE night the pubs opened, my boyfriend made out with another guy. Now I can’t stop obsessing about it.

I am a man of 30 but my partner is only 21. We were thrilled when our favourite pub, where we met, reopened and both of us drank lots.

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We were invited to a party afterwards and I got so drunk I fell asleep on a sofa. My last memory is my partner sitting on another guy’s lap.

The next morning a friend told me my boyfriend had made out with another guy. Later that guy texted my boyfriend an apology for taking advantage when he was drunk.

He has no memory of any of it and broke down in tears begging me to forgive him. He swears I am his only love.

I am paranoid as a similar thing happened with my ex and the trust never returned to our relationship.

DEIDRE SAYS: You were both very drunk and it’s only fair to give him another chance. He says he loves only you, so agree you will make a huge effort to rebuild the broken trust.

Are there niggling issues in your relationship that need to be sorted? My e-leaflet Cheating – Can You Get Over It? will help.

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