DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE similar mannerisms to my girlfriend’s violent ex, so she dumped me.
She is stressed because of coronavirus and is over- thinking everything.
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Her last relationship left her damaged but I’d never raise a hand to her. She’s 25 and I’m 23.
I’ve seen pictures of her ex and admit we do look similar, but that’s not my fault.
I haven’t met her for weeks but we FaceTimed yesterday. We agreed to go for a coffee when things start opening up again.
Is there anything I can do to reassure her?
DEIDRE SAYS: She may have been attracted to you initially just because you do share visual characteristics.
Many of us have a physical type we are drawn to. If you think your relationship has real potential, suggest she gets help to deal with what sound like flashbacks.
To find out more about the condition, and treatment, visit mind.org.uk and search “Complex PTSD”.
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