We are both in our 50s and have been together for six years.

He rarely had sex with me in the first year but I thought things would change – but they haven’t.

I have been seeing other men recently and I’ve had affairs with a few. One wants me to leave my partner to be with him. I don’t particularly love him but I do have needs.

I don’t want to be on my own and I don’t know what to do.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your relationship is withering away but the decent way to handle this is to stop seeing other men and sort this out one way or the other.

Tell your boyfriend either he joins with you in reviving your sex life or you are both better off calling it a day.

My e-leaflet Reviving a Man’s Sex Drive explains possible causes but he is more likely to respond positively if you talk of it as a joint problem.

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