DEAR DEIDRE: THOUGH I have a great relationship with my girlfriend, sex has taken a nosedive.

I am 23, she is 22. We used to be at it all the time and I had no problem making her orgasm.

Recently, though, I can’t last very long. I am now putting a lot of pressure on myself and it is affecting my girlfriend.

She has told me what a problem it is for her. I didn’t react well at first but I worry I am just disappointing her now.

I want to know how to get the spark going again.

DEIDRE SAYS: I suspect for some reason you didn’t have sex for a while and then, when you did, you found you climaxed very quickly.

Quite natural after waiting a while but that unnerved you and now you’re stuck in a vicious cycle.

My e-leaflet on How Men Can Last Longer explains self-help, and fun, sex therapy you can use together to break the pattern.

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